This Too Shall Pass
On Friday my sister passed away after a relatively short illness. It was a very powerful reminder of how fragile life can be…
I wrote this poem several years ago, seated beneath a giant bell that faces a local graveyard.
For Whom The Bell Tolls
Seagulls scream overhead,
Above the mighty bell,
While Inis Caorach lies silent,
Between two stone walls,
In Loving Memories fill my gaze,
Of a dear wife and mother, husbands, daughters, sons…
Short sacred memories of infants and newborn,
Sarah, Peter, Rose and John,
Con, Connie, Cornelius,
Lie beneath Celtic Crosses or marble standing stones,
Inishal, Crohy Boyle, Bunawack,
Derrydruel, Milltown and Craghey,
No townland remains untouched,
One inscription says it all,
“For whom the bell tolls, the bell of the Angelus, remind me of ye.”
Brigid P. Gallagher is a retired natural medicines therapist, passionate organic gardener and author of “Watching the Daisies- Life lessons on the Importance of Slow,” a holistic memoir dedicated to the art of mindfulness and healing from debilitating illness.
Categories: Grief, Death and Dying
you always have elegance, joy of post!
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Thank you Mihran. 🌼
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I’m sorry for your loss and send you healing thoughts.
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Thank you so much Irene. Life is very fragile as you know…🌼
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Yes, it is. You are right.
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Sorry to hear about losing your sister .
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Thank you Arlene 🌼
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I’m sorry to hear your sister passed away. It must be hard especially the illness was a short time and family was not expecting it. Hope you’re doing okay. Much love!!
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Thank you Miriam. It is a great reminder to appreciate each and every moment. 🌼
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Yes, you’re right. I remember one year we went on a vacation, when we came home, our long time neighbor passed away. We were gone only for 11 days. We couldn’t believe that. ♥
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A poignant poem and a scary poke at
Life”s fragility. Her peace will be your strength. X
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Thank you Ellen. 🌼
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Take care you, can do this. Xx
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It’s beautiful … the fragility of life is something to never forget. Thank you for sharing this and my heartfelt condolences to you and all who loved her
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Thank you Osyth. Life can change on a sixpence. 🌼
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I’m sorry for your loss.
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Thank you. 🌼
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Sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Life is precious and I had a reminder of that with my aunt who passed away on new years eve. x
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Thank you Liz. It has been a tough year with illnesses and death 🌼
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So sorry for your loss Brigid. Hope you are coping OK. Life indeed is fragile. Excellent poem 🙂
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Thank you Judith. Life takes us to so many tough places. 🌼
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So sorry for your loss. Sending you love.
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Bless you Masha. 🌼
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Beautiful poem. I hope you’re doing ok. xxx
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Thank you Heather. I am feeling better than last week. X🌼
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Me an Dizzy have been thinking of you. We’re also very much enjoying reading your book. 🙂 xxx
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I am so glad. Give Dizzy a hug from me. X
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I will do. 🙂 xxx
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So sorry Brigid.. far too young and I thought you poem was perfect as a reminder that we only have one life to live. I know you will have many images and wonderful memories that will keep her alive in your heart. ♥♥
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Thank you Sally. Sadness and loss visit us all. It is a great reminder of how precious life is. 🌼
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It is Brigid.. ♥
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So sorry to learn of your loss, Brigid. I found when I lost my sister that losing a sibling is unique, often misunderstood by others and a grief for me like no other. Sending you hugs and condolences.
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Thank you. Life is indeed tough at times but also incredibly precious. 🌼
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It is precious and something I try not to take for granted. XO
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Great poem…I’m so very sorry to hear about your sister. With deepest sympathy!
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Thank you Debbie. 🌼
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Lovely poem. I’m so very sorry for your loss Brigid. Such sad times, treasure your memories. Much love to you. xo
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I am so sorry to hear about your sister, Brigid. That is a terrible shock to you. Your poem is very meaningful.
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Thank you Robbie. Yes it is still hard to believe 🌼
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I’m so sorry for your loss, Brigid. I hope you can take comfort from your own words, as they are wise.
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Thank you Clive. Life sure takes us to some tough places 🌼
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That’s when we learn the most about ourselves and those around us. Be strong, and take good care of yourself 😊
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Sending you a hug and the warmest of wishes that the day will be soon that you remember your dear sister with a smile to replace your tears.
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Thank you so much Bernadett
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Bernadette. It has been a tough year. Sending you a hug too. 🌼
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So sorry for you loss Bridgid…my thoughts and prayers for you
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Thank you Mich. 🌼
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I am so very sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Sisters are very special, as I know.
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Thank you Jen. They are indeed. 🌼
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Sending you hugs, Brigid. I have lost family suddenly and some to long, agonizing illness. They are equally painful. May you find peace in loving memory of your sister.
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Thank you. Yes my dear Dad had a very tough time before he passed. 🌼
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So sorry to hear, and what a beautiful poem. May your sister Rest In Peace, and may Perpetual Light shine upon her.
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Thank you Margaret 🌼
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Oh Brigid, losing a sister is like losing your own body part. My heart goes out to you. Sending you love hugs and peace. May her soul rest in peace.
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Thank you Balroop. I really appreciate those hugs. 🌼🌼🌼
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It is a deeply moving poem Brigid. My thoughts are with you at this time of your loss. Px
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Thank you Paul. I really appreciate your support. 🌼🌼🌼
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Actually Brigid at times like this I wish I could do more. The title of your post is very apt: everything passes; everything changes. I am not terribly sure time heals but it does allow us to come to terms with what cannot be altered. Much love Px
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Thank you Paul. I am really glad to know you. 🌼🌼🌼
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I am so sorry for the loss of your sister. The poem is especially beautiful. I am praying for comfort. til you see her again
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Thank you Michele. All prayers are much appreciated. 🌼🌼🌼
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you have them dear friend.
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Sorry for your loss Brigid. Life is so short. Hope you’re doing well. 🦋
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Thank you. Yes I am doing better than last week. 🌼🌼🌼
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That is just beautiful, I am sorry you lost your sister so suddenly. Blessings.~Kim
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Thank you Kim. It has been a shock. 🌼🌼🌼
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So sorry for your loss!! It’s awful to lose the ones we love. I lost my aunt when I was young – definitely changes your perspective on life.
Kathrin — http://mycupofenglishtea.wordpress.com
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Thank you Kathrin 🌼
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Brigid, I am so sorry for your loss. You’re in my thoughts and prayers.
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Thank you so much Terri. 🌼
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I’m so sorry to hear of your loss, Brigid. Your poem is beautiful and wistful, and reminds me that the passing of our days and loves is part of life. Sending you much light and love. ❤
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Bless you Diana. Sadness and loss is such a big part of life. I really appreciate your kindness. 🌼🌼🌼
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Dearest Daisies,
I’m so sorry to hear of the loss of your sister. This must be a difficult time for you and your family.
The poem is truly beautiful.
May peace be yours, and may you find comfort in the memories you have of your sister.
Praying for you Daisies.
Sending much love ~ Cobs. x 🌷
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Thank you Cobs. It has been a tough few months. I really appreciate your kindness and I shall pop over soon. 🌼🌼🌼
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My heart is sad for your loss, your beautiful poem says it all and is a lovely tribute to your sister, life is indeed precious and every moment counts, thank you for this very tender reminder, Brigid.
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Thank you Kim. Yes, life can turn on a sixpence. I am so thankful for your kindness and support. 🌼🌼🌼
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I’m still thinking of you…
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Beautiful. I like to spend time in churchyards too, it is a lovely place for peaceful reflection. I had a tree planted in our local cemetery for my dad and brother, both of whom died with no warning. I go there and talk to them, placing my hands on the tree, drawing strength from its now sturdy trunk. I am so sorry about your sister. Today is my dad’s birthday. I shall celebrate by watching one of his favourite John Wayne films, the one set in Ireland, The Quiet Man. With love, Chris 💜
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What a lovely way to honour your dad and brother. The Quiet Man is a true classic. Sending you a hug. 🌼🌼🌼
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Received with love, just watched it and still smiling 😄
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Again, my deepest condolences Brigid. I am so very sorry to hear of your sisters passing. The poem is a delicate reminder that we will all move on someday. Yet I am sorry your sisters passing came sooner rather than later. I’m keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
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Bless you Sharon. She was sick for such a short time. I appreciate all your thoughts and prayers. 🌼🌼🌼
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Of course Brigid. Hugs.
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Heartfelt poem, Brigid. Warmest thoughts and hugs for you at the loss of your sister…words are never enough. Xx
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Thank you Annika. I really appreciate those hugs. 🌼🌼🌼
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So sorry for your loss 💛
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Thank you. I really appreciate your kind comments. 🌼🌼🌼
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My condolences for the loss of your sister. Your poetry so beautifully takes us through this moment with you. Blessings and hugs.
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Thank you. Death touches us all but sometimes it takes us by surprise. I am thankful that my sister passed peacefully and free of pain. 🌼🌼🌼
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It is important that she was pain free and peace had taken her.
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Brigid, I am so sorry to hear of your sister’s passing. My condolences to you and please know I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
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Thank you so much Steph. I really appreciate your support. 🌼🌼🌼
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Your sister has now joined the Angels of Heaven. She’s smiling down upon you wishing you not shed tears of sadness but those of happiness and joy and to think of all the fond times you spent together and will again someday! You, your sister and your family are in my thoughts and prayers Brigid! xo
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Thank you Deb. All prayers are gratefully received. 🌼🌼🌼
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You’re welcome Brigid. They are lovingly extended! xo
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I’m so so sorry Brigid.. yes life is a miracle while it lasts… I’m sure your sister is watching over you and your family from her magical moonbeam.. xxx
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Thank you Wendy. Life sure takes us to some challenging places but it is also full of daily blessings. X 🌼🌼🌼
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Brigid, Im so, so sorry for your loss. Comforting thoughts and prayers to you and your family. 🙏🏼❤️💐
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Thank you Alexis. I am thankful for all the prayers. They have helped enormously. 🌼🌼🌼
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Wishing you nothing but beautiful memories of your sister!
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Thank you. I really appreciate your kindness. 🌼🌼🌼
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offering a bell for your loss.
may she continue shining
in your compassionate heart’s
actions & words.
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Thank you. I love your thoughtful words. 🌼🌼🌼
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Sorry to hear of your loss, sad times indeed. Look after yourself in the coming weeks.
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Thank you Janet. I really appreciate your kindness. 🌼🌼🌼
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Beautiful words for such a sorrowful occasion. You and your family are in my thoughts.
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Thank you Traci. I really appreciate your kindness 🌼🌼🌼
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Very sorry to hear about your sister Brigid. Beautiful poem also.
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Thank you Paddy 🌼🌼🌼
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I am so sorry for your loss. I never had a sister you are very blessed!
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Thank you Diane. I still have two great sisters who are indeed a blessing. 🌼
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Oh honey, I just saw this. I am sad for your loss.
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Thank you Jessica. It is still a bit hard to believe. 🌼🌼🌼
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I guess so. Love and hugs.
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Dear Brigid– add me to the long list here of people who are sad and sorry with you for the loss of your sister. I knew she was not well, but am so sorry to hear she’s passed. God bless you in these difficult days– I pray you feel his presence and help and know his peace and hope of the life ahead for you sister. Love you dear friend. Go keep you. hugs from here.
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Bless you Rhonda. She had a beautiful peaceful passing for which I am incredibly thankful. 🌼🌼🌼
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Thinking about you Brigid and praying for you in this hard days. I know you were such a good sister to her… hugs.
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Thanks Rhonda x
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Oh Brigid, I am sending you ever so much love and Light. And blessings for the Soul of your sister every step of her path home to love. Your poem is truly magnificent. The end completely touched me.
I remember when my mom died, one of the only things that gave me solace was walking in the woods and screaming to God. It was in the middle of winter and snow was everywhere. There was something purifying about it.
I love you Brigid. Big hugs from me to you. I am here with open arms for you,
Debbie
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Thank you Debbie. My sister had a lively peaceful passing so that has really helped. Thank you for your thoughts. 🌼🌼🌼
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