
Does fibromyalgia cause insomnia or does insomnia cause fibromyalgia? I do not have a definitive answer. However, I do know that insomnia can wreak havoc on health and well being.
I first succumbed to fibromyalgia in 2003, and insomnia took hold of my life for seven long years.
15 years later, my lifestyle has completely changed and I have embarked on a new life path, embracing a slower pace of life, as per the title of my memoir.
My top tips for healing insomnia are:
Limit sugar, caffeine and alcohol
Sugar and caffeine are both stimulants. Eating sugar causes a spike in blood glucose levels, causing an immediate stimulation of the brain.
Caffeine acts on the central nervous system to increase alertness and attention. It can stay in your system for up to 12 hours – not so good if you are prone to insomnia!
Alcohol may help you fall asleep more quickly, but you will spend less time in a deep sleep, and more time in the less restful REM or Rapid Eye Movement stage of sleep. In addition you may have to visit the toilet more often during the night…
Avoid exercising close to bedtime
The jury is divided on whether exercising before bedtime affects sleep quality. If you suffer from insomnia, it is worth experimenting on exercising at different times of the day.
Personally, I find exercising in the evening delays sleep and impairs my sleep quality. I avoid it completely.
Avoid watching television, using a computer or mobile phone before bedtime
In the evening, our bodies produce a hormone called melatonin that helps us feel sleepy, fall asleep and stay asleep till daylight. It then naturally dissipates.
However, televisions, computers and mobile phones emit blue light, which can prevent the body from producing melatonin.
If you suffer from insomnia you may find it helpful to avoid watching television, using a computer or mobile phone 2 to 3 hours before bedtime.
Bloggers please take note!
Keep to a regular bedtime
Our brains and bodies are subject to a Circadian Rhythm which regulates our sleeping patterns, our energy levels and appetite…
I was born a lark, and always feel better going to bed and waking up early. Sadly, I find even occasional late nights a problem, as my Circadian Rhythm takes a very long time to return to its usual balance.
Sometimes, I decide it is simply not worth it.
Epsom salt baths
Epsom salts are rich in the mineral magnesium, which helps to regulate neurotransmitters responsible for calming the body and the mind. Magnesium also regulates melatonin levels.
I find Epsom salt baths help my muscles to relax, and aid restful sleep.
Magnesium supplements are also worth considering. I include magnesium in my daily vitamin and mineral support; I do not thrive without it.
Keep you bedroom free of clutter
One of the insights I gained through my years as a natural medicines therapist, was that CHI or energy needs to have a clear channel to flow in both our bodies, our homes and our workplace.
Clutter impedes the flow of CHI and can contribute to a busy mind, poor quality sleep, blockages in our career, the flow of abundance…
If you suffer from insomnia, please consider having a major clutter clear out in your bedroom and removing excess books, furniture, clothes lying on the floor…
A calm environment aids a calm mind.
Keep electronic equipment out of the bedroom
I have already touched on the detrimental effects of televisions, computers, and mobile phones on sleep quality.
If you are finding it difficult to sleep, please consider removing electronic equipment from your bedroom.
Decorate your bedroom in restful hues
Bright colours in your bedroom will stimulate your mind, and are not conducive to restful sleep. If you are an insomniac, consider letting go of bright yellow, orange, or red walls…
A restful or pastel palette of duck egg blue, pink, pale grey, lilacs, soft greens… will help you sleep more soundly.
Invest in a good quality bed and bedding
We spend approximately one third of our lives asleep, therefore it is worth spending a little extra on a good quality bed. I use hypoallergenic bedding, which I wash in environmentally friendly products. It helps my breathing and promotes good quality sleep.
Invest in your well being. You are worth it.
Keep a journal by your bed side
As a blogger, I often find I get my best ideas just before I nod off. I write them down immediately, lest I forget!
I also add any “To do” thoughts that surface and jot those down too.
Cultivate an attitude of gratitude
Life can be tough at times, but cultivating an attitude of gratitude has helped me through life’s ups and downs. I write a note of ten good things each and every day in my journal, no matter how small.
If life is challenging, I remind myself that:
“This too shall pass.”
Natural Medicines
Acupuncture, Herbal Medicine, Creative Visualisation, Reflexology, Dr Bach Flower Essences, and Emotional Freedom Technique have all helped me in healing my insomnia.
Emotional Freedom Technique known as EFT is particularly useful. You can even practice it in bed while lying down.
The website http://www.emofree.com has free tutorials on this simple yet powerful healing technique.
Brigid P. Gallagher is a retired natural medicines therapist, passionate organic gardener and author of “Watching the Daisies- Life lessons on the Importance of Slow,” a holistic memoir dedicated to the art of mindfulness and healing from debilitating illness.
I will give EVERY single thing on this list a try as NOTHING seems to work for me. Thanks for sharing these helpful tips 🙂
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Wishing you success. Once you break the cycle of insomnia it gets better. Let me know how you get on.
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I’ve avoided watching TV before bed and have added the journal to write down my worries. .. yesterday I fell asleep with the pen in hand 😊
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Many thanks for sharing and good luck on your own healing journey.
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This too shall pass is my favorite as well. Your tips are on point.
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Thank you.
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These tips are worth taking seriously.
“This too shall Pass”
That should be a mantra.
I adhere to it.
One of the best tools one should have, i am glad you you remind it.
Shiva
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I often remind myself!
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I use several of these tips, and they do work.😊
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Thanks Brenda. Insomnia is horrible but thankfully I have left it behind.
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Me too for the most part. Although it still hits every now and then.
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Very nice tips. I experienced that sitting a long time in front the computer screen also a cause of insomnia.Yes, You also mentioned at 2nd point that to avoid watching TV at night.
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Yes, I have actually stopped watching the news completely now – it was affecting me too much at any time of day.
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Great advice. Sleepless nights can feel endless.
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Yes. It leaves you feeling awful and it can be very hard to break the cycle.
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beautiful picture!
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Thank you. I love taking photographs but thank goodness for digital.
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One of my favorite pastimes is falling asleep while watching TV. Can’t give it up
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Everyone has there own ways of working. Happy sleeps.
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The joy of a good night’s sleep cannot be surpassed when one suffers from insomnia. Thank you for your list of lovely ideas, I too shall be trying a few of these.
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Wishing you many great sleeps Barbara.
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Reblogged this on Barbara Ann Paper Arts and commented:
I’m sharing these thoughts from a blogging friends whose blog I enjoy so much. I know many of you suffer insomnia as I myself do at times. These ideas may be helpful.
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Thank you Barbara. I really appreciate the re blog. Blessings to you.
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I reblog posts I find fascinating and useful … like this one. I love it that we all help each other be ‘heard’ … some of my most productive hours have been during the night when I’ve given up on not being able to fall back to sleep, and while in the short term, for my business that’s great, in the long term for my health it is not. boohoo
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Thank you. The blogging community is a huge supportive network. It all comes back to us. Good Karma. 🌼
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i often suffer with this and i thank you for your tips –
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You are very welcome. Let me know how you get on…
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Great tips! I’ve been dealing with insomnia for eight years. It is not fun.
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I agree – it takes a concerted effort to eradicate it. I find a multi pronged approach works best for me!
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I definitely need to take a more holistic approach. Thanks for stopping by.
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Many thanks for the re blog.
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I have to admit, I’m going through a bit of a bad phase work wise but I am sleeping well only because I know this isn’t going to stay for long, this phase will pass by and there will be a day I will laugh about this. My father’s advice to me get over bad phases is to ask, in 10 years will this really matter? I haven’t faced anything yet, the answer to which is yes…
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Your father gives wise advice.
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” this too shall pass” is a good mantra for all aspects of life!! good tips…
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Many thanks. It is one of my favourites!
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I have suffered on and off with insomnia for a long time. Currently, I wake up very early in the morning, maybe one or 2 AM and can’t fall back asleep. I have found that it’s a good time to start working on blogs or doing research. The majority of my blogs I write on my phone, so it’s pretty easy to grab it in the middle the night and not take the chance of waking anyone up.
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I hope this ends for you soon. Take care.
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Thank you!!
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Thanks for this great share Brigid.
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Thank you Sumith. I made your chicken yesterday. It is almost gone! Very yummy.
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Thank you Brigid for the feedback. Happy to know you enjoyed it.
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Love the magnesium idea.
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Yes, I cannot manage without my magnesium boost. I have tried going without it and I do not function the same!
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Many years ago I chose to not talk on the phone or be on the computer after a certain time in the evening. I think your tips are great. It is worth thinking about how to unwind from the day before you get in bed to go to sleep. I notice a difference when I break from my unwinding routine.
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Yes, I find anything on my phone, TV or computer is counterproductive for good sleep.
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Thanks so much for the share. I think your bedroom should be your sanctuary. Keep it clutter free and calm.
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I suffer from insomnia- it certainly can be frustrating. Great tips 🙂
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Yes, its a difficult one. I think it takes a lot of different tactics to banish!
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Great ideas Brigid– sometimes I wake up in the night and have a hard time getting back to sleep– that’s a time when I pray for my kids… (also I need the no caffeine rule!) Hope you are well there… xo
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Thanks Rhonda. I find I need to keep to my list otherwise it creeps back in! I am pretty tired right now but getting back to a new normal after my book launch. x
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That would be exciting–and exhausting! You deserve a good tuck in! take care Brigid… xox
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I am reading this post for the second time and I find many suffer from this insomnia.
The tips given are heavenly and if done as said one shall I have sleep; that should be heavenly.
Thanks Brigid!
I am going for my Sunday nap, hope it is heavenly, as meanwhile I shall remember your tips.
Shiva
🙂
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Sleep well Shiva.
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Brigid with all your blessings I could.
Keep sending them please.
In return I shall.
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Hi – just a little tip – some people really thrive after doing a series of cleanses (whole body – not just colon) and then supplement with enzymes and amino acids.
Also – the epsom salt baths are amazing for detox and calming, but would suggest checking out magnesium chloride as it is more absorbable and really helps certain people with a variety of ailments.
And source naturals makes a mineral blend that helps with kreb’s cycle and then while cleaning out the GI many folks take orthinine and it helps sleep.
I like your tips – but add that root causes need to be addressed and in my experience of working with folks – most of the time sleep is disrupted from an imbalance inside the different systems – and enzymes and minerals and some vitamins are key.
Oh and kelp or any thyroid support is key!
Also suggest a good liver support for NAC and ALA
Peace – 😉
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Thank you for your feedback. Have you posted these?
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no – I have not – I guess I have too many things to post about – :)\
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Thank you so much.
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I have reblogged your post. Insomnia.
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Great tips here Brigid.. I’m a bit of a ‘bugger’ for late night blogging and you’re right – I should keep the equipment away so I’m not tempted to just check… x
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I put a cut off point every day now as I would be swallowed up in it all!
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Yes, I have insomnia, too. I think just about everyone I know with fibromyalgia, has insomnia, too. I have to have my electronic devices in my room because well, that’s where I live. all day, every day, unless I have an appointment to go to, and I have a minimum of 2 in any given week. But, what I have found to be working, since I decided to go ahead and do what my 2 therapist’s have been telling me to do for quite some time now, and that is to get out of the bed. I cannot stay in bed all day, even though it’s the most comfortable place to sit. I have a Tempurpedic bed and I can’t help it, it’s so much more comfortable than my recliner in here. Anyway, I did this for a week and it worked great and I was sleeping like a baby. I would get up, shower, put clean clothes on, brush teeth, and all that, make the bed and stay out of it all day. I just moved right next to the bed to the recliner. My therapist’s kept telling me that I wasn’t sleeping because my body doesn’t know the bed is for sleeping and one other activity only. They were so correct. I then got depressed and that ended, but I’m going to try to get back to doing that this week. 🙂
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Great to hear you are making progress. I found I started to improve bit by bit once I started sleeping better.
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I would like to add that I use magnesium lotion. Like the Epsom salts, the magnesium soaks into the skin. But with the lotion, I put it on specific places/muscle areas that are sore. You don’t put it on your whole body and a little goes a long way. It relaxes me enough that I get to sleep faster and aren’t up as often in the middle of the night. I sleep better. It wasn’t very expensive. I got the Life-Flo brand, 8 ounces for $7. On Amazon, it’s $10. There is also a spray available. I buy it at Natural Grocer, so I would assume it’s at Whole Foods or many natural foods or supplements store. You have a nice blog! Thanks!
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Sounds good. I shall give it a go. 😊
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Thanks for using the word ‘Heal’ rather than ‘Help’ in your title, so much more powerful! My psychologist husband uses this phrase: ‘positive reframing’ with clients and it ties in with your last two points on being grateful and knowing the tough times will pass. I believe it is mostly our heads that keep us awake rather than our bodies and in that case it is so good to capture those whirling thoughts and look at them with positive eyes, to identify the good and tell the bad to go packing. I have been struggling with some insomnia (a few hours some nights a week) and it’s always anxiety that keeps me awake. Once I ask myself what it is I am afraid of, identify it, put it on a mental shelf and then find a good thing to replace it, I fall asleep! Why is it everything seems worse at night?!?
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Thank you for your lovely feedback. I agree anxiety can play a big role in insomnia. However fibromyalgia is a tough nut to crack…
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Yes, I would imagine. I couldn’t possibly compare my experience with having to cope with a distressing illness such as that.
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Hi, my friend Nikki at Flying Thru Water told me about your blog and thought I should pay you a visit. I’m glad I did. I battled with insomnia for about 15 years before I found out that I have severe sleep apnea. Around that same time I was also diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis and fibromyalgia. Now that I wear a CPAP at night I sleep better but still have a sleepless night now and then, mostly due to pain. I will try to remember these tips and looking forward to reading more of your blogs.
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Nikki is so kind. I do hope you find my blog posts useful. I hope you are able to get better pain management too. Take care. 😇
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Another wonderful post, Brigid. Just linked in the Relateds to my most recent sleep article. NOW, if folks would just take your advice – lol. Change is hard – and those devices seem to have addicted the universe.
Most folks simply don’t realize that the blue-spectrum light emitted from the screen is alerting (signalling the brain that it’s morning, not night). Many believe that if they turn down the brightness all is well. NOPE! At least not for many who struggle to fall asleep.
xx,
mgh
(Madelyn Griffith-Haynie – ADDandSoMuchMORE dot com)
ADD/EFD Coach Training Field founder; ADD Coaching co-founder
“It takes a village to educate a world!”
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It took me a long time to crack it Madelyn. Insomnia is no fun at all. Thank you again for your support. X 🌼
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My pleasure. I appreciate yours as well.
xx,
mgh
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Another beautiful post, Brigid. your points r so vital and important. Thanks for the wonderful share.
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You are very welcome Kamal. Insomnia affects so many people. 🌼🌼🌼
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Thanks Brigid.
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Excellent tips Brigid and they do work, though I haven’t tried much of natural medicines.
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Thank you Jacqueline. I would not be as well as I am without the support of some great natural medicine therapists and my doctor. 🌼
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Excellent. Agree, agree, agree. I am reblogging it on Stone in the Road, I hope that is OK? Now if I could just get my anxiety under control. I’m on high alert status at bedtime and sometimes can’t even go into the bedroom… This has just started happening, do not yet know why. Freaks my husband out but I just don’t know what to do. Time for a doc appointment. ~Kim
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Thank you Kim. Please feel free to reblog. The Bach Flower Essences or EFT might be helpful. https://bachcentre.com has good info. I hope you get the support you need. Brigid 🌼🌼🌼
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Thanks Brigid. I will check this site out. xo~Kim
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Wow, lots of information on this site! And worldwide too. Thanks!
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These remedies are terrific Kim. They kept me going through the worst patches and they cost very little.
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Thank you Kim. 🌼🌼🌼
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I too have a problem sleeping, but for me doing some light exercise before bed helps and unwinding watching an uplifting film before bed also helps. My problems are physical – I have to keep changing position – and mental overstimulation. If I’ve had emotional, difficult or even exciting conversations during the day, I find these playing on a loop all night. I also can’t sleep when we have people staying over. I use all the other things you mention, but frustratingly, I can’t sit up in bed and so when the ideas start to flow when I’m trying to sleep, I have to get up to write them down and before I know it a couple of hours have passed!
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It is such a hard thing to conquer Chris. I am so thankful that the worst is past. Quality sleep is really precious. 🌼
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I keep reading about how many years I’ve lost through insomnia and how great my risk of heart attack/stroke/diabetes – don’t they realise the anxiety just promotes the insomnia?! 😂
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They are helpful tips Brigid. thank you.
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My pleasure Arlene. Insomnia is such an awful challenge. 🌼
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Wonderful tips
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Thank you. 🌼
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Thanks so much for some wonderful tips Brigid! My hubby and I already do some of these things, but I’m going to use this as a checklist to make sure I’m giving us our best opportunity for some restful sleep. Hugs to you!
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Thank you Terri. I found it so hard to overcome. I am really thankful that I only have short bouts these days…
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Excellent post, great tips, especially about electronics in the bedroom. TV is a definite no it gives off so many emissions. I drink coffee before bed it has no effect on my sleep. I take Valerian before sleeping now and this puts me into a deep relaxed sleep. Blessings
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I am glad you are getting great sleep. We take it for granted in our youth. I could sleep forever in my teens and twenties.
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I find it easy to sleep always have. Great post.
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I have heard of many of these tips before but to see them all in one place, so concisely put together and explained is wonderful. I bought some epsom salts once, a bag of them within a box. I enjoyed opening the bag and tipping a handful into a hot bath one evening and even lit a candle to celebrate that I was to be looking after myself from that point onwards.
About three days later, the box was empty (and I’d only had showers in the interim). My husband had managed to use the remainder of the box in two baths alone!!!!
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It is lovely in the bath. Your husband would have lovely soft skin. Perhaps he will buy you another box 😉
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I’ll ask him for one for my birthday 🌸
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These tips sound useful. I think all issues have a direct and indirect connection with eating habits. I believe that following a proper diet can win half the battle.
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Unfortunately the insomnia that comes with fibromyalgia is a tough nut to crack…🌼
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Magnesium works wonders for so many things. These tips are useful for all. I learnt a lot here. Thanks for sharing.
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Thank you. Yes Bella. I could not manage without magnesium. 🌼
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All of these are brilliant suggestions Brigid. xx I was finding it really hard to sleep last year and putting all these together did help. I still need to try out epsom salt baths though. 🙂 xxx
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Thanks Heather. I found I needed to use them all when it was at its worst. It made me feel exhausted all the time. Xx
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